When you're persuaded?

when you're persuaded to do something, how do u know its for a good cause..just this past july, i met my cousin from india in new york..the last time we met was when i went to india in december 2003..during part of the time, things were pretty hectic for them..his sister moved to a new house and one dau her landlord just showed up unannounced and fixed her place..my cousin asked me about my vacation time and asked why i dont come to india...before he left, he said "we look forward to seeing you in december, then when i talked to him in august, the first thing he asked was "are you guys planning to visit india..now that my sister is going to india after 13 years,he is happy and thinks my mom and i are coming too..i sent him my her contact info and he replied 'hope you guys are able to come with her..look forward to see you all...ccheerrsss...does it sound like my cousin really wants me to visit..i'm in college now..my friends tell me he might want to spend time with me before i get busy